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When we talk about child behaviour, it’s easy to picture a toddler throwing spaghetti on the floor or a teenager rolling their eyes (again!). Just the other day, my 5-year-old transformed our living room into an art studio, and not just with crayons on paper—oh no! She had a full-on paint party, complete with splashes on the walls and her sister’s face as her canvas! It was both a masterpiece and a disaster, reminding me that parenting is a wild mix of chaos, creativity, and a whole lot of love.

Child behaviour is a fascinating, complex blend of physical, cognitive, and social/emotional developments that change across different stages of life. And, yes—every kiddo is unique!

Let’s break it down and help you understand what’s happening behind all those dramatic gestures and heartfelt hugs.

Why Understanding Behaviour by Age Matters

Let’s be honest: parenting is a bit like trying to put together an IKEA wardrobe without instructions. Sure, you’ve got the pieces (and maybe a bit of hope), but half the time, you’re not sure if you’re putting the right peg in the right hole.

Understanding behaviour by age is like finally getting that instruction booklet – it doesn’t make everything a breeze, but it gives you a roadmap and a little more confidence. Kids aren’t just mini-adults; they’re little beings who change drastically as they grow, shifting from tantrums to eye-rolls faster than you can say “time-out.”

Knowing what to expect at each age is like getting a cheat sheet to your child’s mind. It helps you:

  • Predict the Unpredictable: Toddlers, pre-teens, and teenagers all have their own unique way of testing limits (and your patience). Knowing typical behaviours helps you respond with less surprise and more support.
  • Avoid Miscommunication: Understanding their level of thinking and feeling prevents those “Why won’t you just listen?!” moments, because sometimes, they really don’t get it… and that’s okay.
  • Adapt Your Approach: The way you deal with a three-year-old’s meltdown shouldn’t be the same as dealing with a sixteen-year-old’s existential crisis. Recognizing these differences makes your responses way more effective (and keeps the peace).

Parenting by age stage isn’t about putting kids in boxes; it’s about helping you help them in the way they need most at that moment. So, let’s jump in and see what each stage has in store.

How to Use This Guide (And Not Lose Your Mind)

Think of this guide as your parenting playbook. It’s not about having all the answers – let’s be real, that’s impossible. Instead, this is a trusty reference for navigating each phase and staying sane in the process.

Here’s how to make the most of it:

  • Pick a Stage, Dive In: Not every chapter will apply to you right now. Skim through what fits your child’s current stage (like the toddler antics in Chapter 2) and save the teenage drama for later – you’ll get there soon enough.
  • Use It as a Cheat Sheet: Each chapter breaks down behaviours into physical, cognitive, and social/emotional categories. If you’re scratching your head over why your toddler won’t share or why your teen suddenly hates family dinner, jump to that section for insight.
  • Embrace Imperfection: You won’t follow every tip perfectly, and that’s okay. Parenting is more art than science, and each kid is unique. This guide is a support, not a script.
  • Have a Laugh: Raising kids is hard, but it’s also hilarious – especially when you realize that some of their quirks are just part of growing up. We’ve sprinkled humor throughout because, let’s face it, sometimes you just have to laugh at the chaos.

So, buckle up, flip to your child’s age, and keep this guide nearby. Whether you’re decoding baby babbles, helping your kid through the middle-school years, or just trying to survive the teenage phase, you’re one step closer to understanding what makes them tick. And hey, you’ve got this!

Child Behaviour in 1-4 Year Olds

Oh, toddlers. These little humans are equal parts adorable and unpredictable, moving from angelic to a full-on meltdown faster than you can say, “Who wants a snack?” At this age, kids are learning and growing at warp speed, taking in everything around them and testing boundaries left, right, and center. Understanding what’s happening in their tiny yet incredibly active minds can make life just a bit easier (and maybe help you survive those dreaded grocery store tantrums).

Physical Development: Climbing, Tumbling, and Tiny Feet on the Move

The Toddler Energy Overload
Welcome to the toddler years, where it feels like your child’s batteries never run out. At this age, kids are developing their gross motor skills, which is just a fancy way of saying they’re becoming little masters at running, jumping, climbing, and tumbling. They’re moving from those early wobbly steps to a speed you never thought possible. Here’s what to expect:

  • Running Everywhere: Once they figure out how to move, walking becomes too tame. They’re off like tiny rockets, charging down hallways and making a break for freedom at every chance.
  • Climbing Everything: Yes, even that shelf you thought was out of reach. Climbing is their way of exploring height and building muscle strength, so they’ll try to scale anything from furniture to playground slides.
  • Falling (A Lot): With all that moving around comes the occasional bump or tumble. Toddlers are still figuring out coordination, so don’t be surprised by a few bruises. They’re learning, and each fall helps them build resilience.

Encouraging Safe Exploration
At this age, creating a safe space for them to explore is crucial. Childproof your home, but also let them push their limits. If they want to climb, show them a safe way to do it. Encourage physical activity with obstacle courses, soft play mats, and trips to the park. This phase is all about supporting their physical curiosity while minimizing your panic.

Cognitive Development: The “Why?” Stage (and How to Survive It)

Mini Scientists in Action
Toddlers are like tiny scientists, constantly testing and observing everything around them. Every time they knock over a cup of water, take apart a toy, or (heaven forbid) touch something sticky, they’re learning about cause and effect. Expect a lot of questions, mostly starting with “Why?” This is their way of trying to understand the world, even if their questions sometimes lead you into absurd conversations.

Milestones to Look For
Here are some of the cognitive milestones your toddler might reach during this stage:

  • Problem-Solving: Figuring out how to stack blocks or fit shapes into matching holes. They’re discovering the magic of figuring things out on their own.
  • Language Explosion: Watch out – your toddler is about to start talking up a storm. Expect a flood of new words, along with some amusing mispronunciations.
  • Memory Development: They’re starting to remember more, whether it’s where their favorite toy is or that you promised them ice cream if they behaved at the store (they won’t forget).

Handling the “Why?” Phase
When they start asking “Why?” all the time, try not to get frustrated (easier said than done, right?). Answering their questions helps them understand the world and boosts their vocabulary. If you’re out of explanations, you can turn it around by asking them what they think – their responses can be hilariously insightful.

Social and Emotional Development: Meltdowns and Magical Moments of Early Empathy

The Emotional Roller Coaster
Emotions run high in toddlerhood. One second, they’re giggling uncontrollably; the next, they’re on the floor sobbing because you gave them the “wrong” color of cup. Toddlers are feeling everything intensely, often without understanding why. This stage is full of “big emotions,” and they haven’t quite figured out how to handle them.

Building Early Empathy
Believe it or not, toddlers can show empathy. They might offer their favorite toy to someone sad or try to comfort a friend who’s crying. It’s the beginning of understanding others’ feelings, and it’s both heartwarming and a big step in their social development.

Tantrum Survival Tips
Tantrums are almost inevitable at this age, and they can come out of nowhere. Here’s a survival guide:

  • Stay Calm: Easier said than done, but keeping your cool helps them learn to calm down.
  • Acknowledge Feelings: Let them know you understand. Saying, “I know you’re upset because…” can make them feel heard.
  • Set Limits Gently: While you’re acknowledging their emotions, be clear about what’s acceptable behavior. You can say, “It’s okay to be angry, but it’s not okay to hit.”

As child development expert Jane Nelsen puts it, “Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children do better, first we have to make them feel worse?” This insight emphasizes the importance of supporting your child emotionally while guiding them towards acceptable behaviors. Acknowledging their feelings and providing gentle limits can lead to more positive outcomes in managing tantrums and frustrations.

This is a stage of high energy, intense curiosity, and emotional ups and downs, but it’s also full of those magical moments that remind you why parenting is worth it. Enjoy the chaos – it’s all part of the adventure!

For more information about this stage please refer to our Child Behaviour in 1-4 Year Olds detailed guide

Child Behaviour in 5 – 10 Years olds

Welcome to the age where kids start thinking they’re basically grown-ups but still trip over their own shoelaces. The elementary years are all about independence, exploration, and (occasionally misguided) confidence. These kids are curious about everything, from how bugs live to why they have to go to bed on time. They’re still figuring out boundaries, but they’re ready to tackle the world – and probably ask you about 100 questions a day.

Physical Development: From Training Wheels to Gym Class

Coordination and Strength (AKA Less Falling, More Running)
In these years, you’ll notice a huge leap in physical skills. They’re not only running around but also mastering more complex tasks like riding bikes, jumping rope, and participating in sports. It’s like they’ve gone from a cute toddler stumble to full-on athletic enthusiasm. Here’s what they’re working on:

  • Coordination Gains: Remember those adorable toddler tumbles? Now, they’re catching, throwing, and balancing better than ever. Their muscles and coordination are catching up with their sense of adventure.
  • Fine Motor Skills: Expect your kid to go from chunky crayons to writing with pencils and even starting cursive. They’re also refining skills like tying shoelaces, cutting with scissors, and creating crafts that actually resemble the thing they’re making.
  • Team Sports and Physical Play: This is a prime age to introduce sports, dance, or other physical activities. Whether they’re team players or solo athletes, sports help them build discipline, social skills, and that satisfying post-game glow.

Encouraging Physical Activity Without Overload
Kids in this age group often crave physical challenges, but they also need time to rest and recharge. Encourage physical activity by mixing up solo play with team games and allowing plenty of free playtime. Too much structure can lead to burnout, even at this age, so let them choose activities that make them happy.

Cognitive Development: Curiosity, Learning, and “I Can Do It Myself!”

Curiosity That Knows No Bounds
The 5-10 years phase is peak curiosity time. Your child’s brain is rapidly soaking up information, and they want answers to all the questions. Expect a flood of “Why?” and “How?” questions – and sometimes ones that make you Google frantically before answering. Their brain is working overtime, trying to make sense of the world and figuring out their place in it.

Big Cognitive Milestones
Here’s a quick look at the cognitive skills they’re building:

  • Reading and Math: From basic letter recognition to reading full sentences and tackling math problems, these years are a whirlwind of academic skills. Reading comprehension and math concepts, like addition and subtraction, are introduced in the early years, progressing to more complex problem-solving by age 10.
  • Critical Thinking and Problem Solving: They’re moving from simple “what’s this?” questions to “how can I make this work?” They’ll start solving puzzles, planning their LEGO builds, and (yes) even arguing their way out of chores.
  • Memory and Organization: Around age 7 or 8, kids start showing improved memory and organizational skills. They might surprise you by remembering things you promised (a double-edged sword for parents) or organizing their own schoolwork.

Encouraging Learning and Independence
Give them opportunities to learn through exploration. Set up science experiments, encourage them to read on their own, and give them simple responsibilities like organizing their school supplies. This age is all about fostering independence – but keep in mind that a little guidance goes a long way.

Social and Emotional Development: Making Friends, Sharing (Or Not), and Developing Kindness

Friends, Fights, and Playground Politics
Social life takes on a whole new meaning for kids in this age group. Suddenly, friends are a big deal, and they’re figuring out how to get along, share, and handle disagreements. They’re learning about empathy, kindness, and what it means to be a friend, though it doesn’t always go smoothly.

Key Social and Emotional Milestones
Here’s what you’ll likely see in terms of social growth:

  • Forming Friendships: They’re making real friends now, not just playing alongside other kids but actually forming bonds. They’ll start showing a preference for certain friends and will likely face the occasional “best friend” drama.
  • Developing Empathy: Around ages 6-7, empathy becomes more apparent. They’re beginning to understand how others feel and can start seeing things from another person’s perspective.
  • Managing Emotions and Frustrations: Kids are learning patience and frustration management. They may not handle every challenge smoothly, but they’re getting better at staying calm and expressing themselves (with some reminders from you, of course).

Helping Kids Build Healthy Social Skills
Encourage playdates and social activities that help them navigate friendships. When conflicts arise, guide them through problem-solving rather than stepping in to solve it for them. Praise kindness and empathy when you see it and remind them that it’s okay to feel frustrated – the key is in how they handle it.

This age group is a wonderful time of discovery, independence, and social growth. Sure, there might be a few bumps along the way (like when they refuse to share), but it’s also a phase filled with curiosity and charm. Enjoy these years – they’re about to fly by!

For more information about this stage please refer to our Child Behaviour in 5-10 Year Olds detailed guide.

Child Behaviour in 11 – 12 Years olds

Welcome to the “in-between” years – no longer a little kid but not quite a teenager. Pre-teens are navigating new physical changes, cognitive growth, and a whole world of social dynamics. These years are often a blend of confidence and self-consciousness, where kids try to figure out who they are while battling everything from growth spurts to shifting friendships. Let’s dive into what makes this age group so uniquely wonderful (and challenging).

Physical Development: Growth Spurts, Body Changes, and Other Surprises

The Start of Puberty (Yes, Already)
The pre-teen years are when most kids start to experience the beginnings of puberty. This can mean physical changes that come on fast and sometimes feel awkward. Pre-teens might not be ready to talk about it (and let’s be real, you might not be ready either), but here’s what to expect:

  • Growth Spurts: Suddenly, shoes that fit last month are too small, and they’re growing out of pants at lightning speed. These growth spurts can make kids feel awkward in their own skin, especially if they’re taller (or shorter) than their peers.
  • Body Hair and Skin Changes: Yep, this is when things like body hair and acne can make an appearance. They may feel self-conscious about these changes, especially since they’re so new.
  • Increased Need for Hygiene: With changes in skin and body composition, personal hygiene becomes more important. This is a great time to talk about deodorant, face washing, and even the basics of hair care.

Supporting Your Pre-Teen Through Physical Changes
Emphasize that these changes are completely normal, even if they feel a little weird. Reinforce that everyone develops at their own pace and that they’re growing into their unique self. Keep the conversation open and non-judgmental, so they feel comfortable asking questions or bringing up concerns.

Cognitive Development: Big Ideas, New Skills, and Surviving Schoolwork

Abstract Thinking Takes Center Stage
Pre-teens are moving beyond simple, concrete thinking and beginning to see the world in more abstract ways. They’re forming their own opinions, asking bigger questions, and tackling complex ideas. Suddenly, school subjects might include discussions on philosophy, ethics, or even politics – and your pre-teen has plenty of thoughts about all of it.

Cognitive Milestones to Look For
Here are some of the cognitive skills they’re working on at this age:

  • Problem-Solving Skills: They’re thinking through situations with more independence and may even surprise you with some clever solutions. (Who knew they could figure out how to fix the remote?)
  • Self-Directed Learning: Many pre-teens take pride in completing homework and school projects on their own. While they may still need some reminders, they’re developing self-discipline and accountability.
  • Critical Thinking: Watch out – they’re getting better at analyzing everything, from school assignments to why they should be allowed extra screen time. Expect a few well-constructed arguments coming your way.

Encouraging Independence in Learning
Support their curiosity by discussing topics they’re interested in, whether it’s science, history, or even the latest internet trend. Encourage them to read, explore, and research on their own. Just remember, they still need a nudge now and then, so be ready to step in when they hit a motivation slump.

Social and Emotional Development: Friends, Fears, and First Hints of Independence

Friendships Go Next-Level
Social life takes on a whole new importance in the pre-teen years. Friendships become more intense, and kids start to form bonds that feel deeper and more meaningful. Peer influence is growing stronger, and you might notice them caring a lot more about what their friends think than they used to.

Key Social and Emotional Milestones
Here’s what’s going on emotionally at this age:

  • Increased Self-Awareness: Pre-teens are more aware of themselves, sometimes to a fault. They may feel self-conscious about their looks, clothes, or even their voice. This can lead to a lot of mirror time and a sudden interest in their appearance.
  • Developing Identity: This is the start of figuring out “who they are” outside of family life. They might try out new hobbies, explore different styles, or express opinions that surprise you. It’s all part of discovering their individuality.
  • Handling Peer Pressure: Friends are important, and peer influence can be a big deal at this age. Pre-teens want to fit in, and sometimes that means feeling pressure to conform, even if it means going against their own preferences.

Helping Pre-Teens Build Healthy Social Skills
Encourage open conversations about friendships, peer pressure, and self-acceptance. Let them know that it’s okay to be themselves, even if it means standing out. Offer advice on handling peer pressure, but try not to push too hard – they’re figuring out a lot on their own.

Dealing with Emotional Ups and Downs
Mood swings are common during this time, thanks to those early hormonal shifts. Your once-happy child might suddenly seem irritable, withdrawn, or a bit dramatic. While it’s normal, it can feel challenging. The best approach is to give them space but also let them know you’re there whenever they want to talk.

These pre-teen years are a rollercoaster of discovery, self-reflection, and sometimes self-doubt. While they may test your patience, remember that they’re on the verge of figuring out who they are. With a little guidance and a lot of understanding, you can help them navigate this transition with confidence.

For more information about this stage please refer to our Child Behaviour 11 – 12 Years old detailed guide.

Child Behaviour  in 13 – 18 Years olds

Welcome to the teenage years! From growth spurts to late-night debates about the meaning of life, this stage is full of new experiences, challenges, and excitement. Teenagers are discovering independence, grappling with identity, and often testing limits – and patience! As they inch closer to adulthood, teens are forming values, navigating relationships, and dreaming up plans for the future. Let’s break down what you can expect in these years and how to support your teen along the way.

Physical Development: Hormones, Self-Image, and Physical Boundaries

Puberty in Full Swing
By now, your teen is experiencing the full impact of puberty. This period brings not only physical changes but also an emotional roller coaster that can leave both teens and parents wondering who swapped their sweet child for a moody stranger. Here’s a peek into what’s happening physically:

  • Continued Growth Spurts: Those rapid growth spurts that started in the pre-teen years often carry on through the early teen years. Clothes and shoes may need constant updating, and they might feel a little awkward as they adjust to their changing body.
  • Sexual Maturity: Hormonal changes are affecting everything from body shape to voice depth to, yes, an increased interest in romance and attraction. For teens, this can be both thrilling and confusing.
  • Awareness of Physical Appearance: Body image is a big deal during these years. Many teens become highly aware of how they look, sometimes even self-conscious. Social media can amplify this awareness, which is why a positive self-image and realistic expectations are crucial.

Supporting Your Teen’s Physical Growth and Self-Image
Encourage healthy habits around nutrition, exercise, and self-care without making it feel like a lecture. Reinforce that everyone grows and develops at their own pace. When it comes to self-image, validate their feelings and remind them that they’re amazing just as they are – and that awkward phases don’t last forever.

Cognitive Development: Logic, Identity, and Planning for the Future (Or Not)

Abstract and Complex Thinking
Your teenager’s brain is evolving at an incredible rate, which is why they’re suddenly questioning the status quo, getting interested in social issues, and exploring complex ideas. They’re developing the ability to think abstractly, meaning they can consider things that aren’t concrete or directly in front of them. This is the time when they start forming their own opinions and values, which often leads to some lively (and sometimes heated) debates.

Big Cognitive Milestones
Here’s what’s happening cognitively:

  • Critical Thinking and Problem Solving: Teens are now capable of more sophisticated problem-solving. They’re able to think about consequences and weigh different outcomes – though sometimes they might need a little guidance to apply this in real life.
  • Planning and Goal-Setting: Many teens start to think about their future, setting goals for school, careers, or personal growth. However, not all teens will know exactly what they want to do, which is also completely normal.
  • Moral and Ethical Development: Teenagers often begin to grapple with big questions about right and wrong, justice, and fairness. They may become passionate about causes or adopt values that differ from what they grew up with.

Encouraging Intellectual Curiosity
Support your teen’s growing independence by encouraging them to pursue their interests, whether it’s academics, arts, sports, or volunteering. Keep conversations open and non-judgmental so they feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and ideas with you, even if you don’t always agree.

Social and Emotional Development: Relationships, Peer Pressure, and Finding Themselves

Friendships and Social Circles
At this age, friendships are often at the center of a teenager’s world. They might be forming deeper, more meaningful connections than ever before. However, relationships can be intense, and friendships may shift as they discover more about themselves and navigate social pressures.

Key Social and Emotional Milestones
Here’s what you’ll likely see in terms of social growth:

  • Exploring Romantic Relationships: Many teens start to show interest in dating. It’s an important part of social and emotional development, as they learn about attraction, affection, and emotional connection.
  • Peer Influence and Pressure: Friends’ opinions matter a lot to teenagers, and peer pressure can be significant. They may face pressure to fit in, try new things, or even make risky choices.
  • Self-Identity and Independence: This is a time when teens are figuring out who they are, separate from their family. They might experiment with different styles, hobbies, or beliefs. They’re developing a sense of identity and values that will shape who they become as adults.

Navigating Emotional Highs and Lows
Teenage emotions are no joke! One moment they’re elated, the next they’re feeling down. Hormones, social dynamics, and personal identity struggles can create intense feelings, often hard for them to process.

Helping Teens Build Emotional Resilience
Encourage open conversations about their experiences, both good and bad. Validate their emotions and show understanding – even if you think they’re being a little dramatic. Help them learn healthy coping mechanisms, like talking about feelings, exercising, or spending time on creative outlets. Remind them that it’s okay to ask for help and that everyone has ups and downs.

For more information about this stage please refer to our 13 – 18 Years old  detailed guide.

Next Steps

Whether you’re coaxing a toddler off the floor in the cereal aisle, navigating your pre-teen’s budding social life, or learning to communicate in “teenager” without using embarrassing emojis, parenting is a wild ride with no roadmaps, no perfect formulas, and certainly no dull moments.

But if there’s one thing this article has tried to show, it’s that you’re not alone. Each age and stage of your child’s life is filled with challenges, triumphs, and, thankfully, some really funny stories.

As a mom of two girls, aged 5 and 9, I’ve had my fair share of parenting adventures. Just the other day, my 9-year-old decided it was the perfect time to host a talent show in the living room, complete with a homemade stage made from pillows and her little sister as her enthusiastic (and slightly chaotic) assistant. While it was adorable to see their creativity, it quickly turned into a comedy of errors when the pillows collapsed, sending them both tumbling to the floor in fits of giggles.

Moments like these remind me that parenting isn’t just about the serious stuff; it’s about embracing the chaos and celebrating those spontaneous, joyful experiences together. It’s okay to let go of the idea of perfection and enjoy the little victories—like when my 5-year-old finally shares her toys without being prompted, or when my 9-year-old tells me about her day at school without me having to ask.

And guess what? Every stage you tackle means you’re growing, too – becoming more patient, more flexible, and maybe even a little braver (hello, teenage years!).

As you move forward, remember:

  • Celebrate the Wins (Big or Small): Did your toddler finally share? Did your pre-teen say “thank you” without prompting? Did your teen hang out with you voluntarily? Those are moments worth celebrating! Give yourself and your child a pat on the back; these little victories are what make the journey worthwhile.
  • Stay Curious: Just as your child is learning and growing, so are you. Be open to new perspectives, new approaches, and new lessons – they’ll come when you least expect it. Parenting isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about exploring, adapting, and finding joy in the unknown.
  • Embrace Imperfection: Spoiler alert: there’s no such thing as a perfect parent, and there’s no such thing as a perfect child. (Really, who wants perfect anyway? It’s the quirks, stumbles, and surprises that make life interesting.)

Parenting is one of the greatest adventures you’ll ever go on, complete with highs, lows, and every emotion in between. So, take a deep breath, hold onto your sense of humor, and know that you’re doing an amazing job. Your child doesn’t need you to be perfect; they just need you to be there, cheering them on, through every phase.

So, here’s to you and your incredible journey! May it be filled with love, laughter, and enough coffee (or tea, or chocolate – you get the idea) to keep you going strong. Because, trust us, you’ve totally got this.

FAQ

Q: What should I do when my toddler has a tantrum?
A: Stay calm and acknowledge your toddler’s feelings. Let them know you understand they’re upset. Setting gentle limits is important too—while it’s okay to feel angry, remind them that hitting or throwing things isn’t acceptable.

Q: How can I encourage positive behavior in my child?
A: Positive reinforcement works wonders! Praise specific behaviors when they do well, like sharing toys or helping out. This helps them understand what actions are appreciated and encourages them to repeat those behaviors.

Q: At what age do children start to understand social cues?
A: Children begin to grasp basic social cues around 3-4 years old, but it becomes more pronounced between ages 5 and 10. During these years, they learn to navigate friendships, share, and express empathy, though they may still need guidance from you.

Q: How do I handle my pre-teen’s changing emotions?
A: Pre-teens experience a whirlwind of emotions due to hormonal changes and social dynamics. Encourage open communication, validate their feelings, and provide a safe space for them to express themselves. Remind them that it’s normal to feel up and down during this time.

Q: What are some strategies to improve my teenager’s independence?
A: Foster independence by allowing your teen to make decisions and set goals for themselves. Encourage them to pursue interests, whether in academics or hobbies, and provide opportunities for self-directed learning. Remember to be supportive while giving them space to grow.

Q: How can I promote healthy sibling relationships?
A: Encourage teamwork and shared activities that require cooperation. Set clear expectations about behavior and reinforce the importance of kindness and empathy. Be sure to praise positive interactions between siblings to reinforce those behaviors.

Q: What should I do if I feel overwhelmed by parenting?
A: It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed! Don’t hesitate to reach out for support from friends, family, or parenting groups. Taking breaks when you can and practicing self-care is crucial for maintaining your well-being as a parent.

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Diane Levy’s warm, humorous, practical and commonsense approach to raising children is evident in her writing, her speaking and her private practice in Auckland as a family therapist. Her main focus is on coaching parents. She is also the author of the best-seller “Of course I love you…NOW GO TO YOUR ROOM”, “They look so lovely when they’re asleep” and “Time Out for tots, teens and everyone in between."

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