Yay! Advent is my favourite season in the church calendar, and it’s here! I love to celebrate Advent and so I’ve put together 11 great ways to celebrate Advent with kids.
The Why: Putting Christmas in Context
Advent is about two things: anticipating Christmas, and putting the story of the baby born in a stable in the broader context of the Big Story of God’s work in our world. The story doesn’t start with Jesus being born.
Matthew and Luke are the biographers in our Bibles who tell the ‘traditional’ Christmas story: shepherds, angels and so on.
Matthew begins his account of Jesus’ life – before mentioning the wise men or the star, let alone the miracles and parables – by putting him in the context of his whakapapa, his family line. He gives a symbolically patterned genealogy stretching back to Abraham, showing that Jesus’ arrival fits in with God’s whole plan for Israel and the world beyond.
Luke goes back even further, giving a fuller whakapapa back to Adam, and God, and then telling the story of Jesus’ baby cousin John before we even meet Mary and the angel.
Both are saying to their original readers: ‘Look! This isn’t out of the blue. It’s been a long time in the planning. God’s long-awaited blueprint for a better world is finally being rolled out!’
That’s why many Christian churches start the countdown to Christmas four weeks before, with Advent. We get ready to celebrate Jesus, reminding ourselves of the bigger plan he is a part of, and of how much the world was anticipating him even before Mary was waddling around with swollen ankles.
The What: 11 Ideas for Celebrating Advent with Kids
Everything I’m going to suggest will be about either counting down to Christmas – capturing a sense of anticipation – or about putting the story of Jesus’ birth in the context of the Big Story.
I’d love you to add to the list with other ideas, resources and links in the comments. You can even add a photo if you like!
Get an Advent Calendar
My son loved his Canterbury Cathedral Advent calendar (a gift from his very attentive English godfather) so much that we kept it and looked at it every so often through the year.
How they work: each day or night, a child gets to open the next little door in the calendar, to reveal a picture that helps fill out the Christmas story.
There are two basic kinds: chocolate and no chocolate 🙂
Chocolate aside, Advent calendars that tell the Jesus story in some way aren’t too hard to find, but might be drowned out by Father Christmas and snow (doubly irrelevant in the Southern Hemisphere) in many mainstream shops – or Peppa Pig in our local supermarket!
Try googling for a nearby Christian bookshop, or go to your closest cathedral or large church that has a gift shop and you should be in luck. There are plenty of options online of course (I’ve just spotted Lego and whisky versions – not in the same calendar, mind you, so someone’s missing an opening in the market…).
The ritual can be as brief or elaborate as you want to make it. Our boy had such a good time that it became quite a big deal. We would look at all the windows he’d already opened, talk a bit about the ones he was most interested in, open the next one, and maybe follow that up with a longer story (from a book or our heads) about where that symbol fitted in the Christmas story.
You could tie it to Bible story readings or other books pretty easily – though you may not know ahead of time what’s coming up yourself! If that appeals, there are some Advent calendars (like this one I spotted online but haven’t explored myself) that come with a book of extra resources to help, so keep your eyes peeled for one of those.
Make an Advent Calendar
If you’re both crafty and keen, you could always make your own Advent calendar to suit your situation.
Pinterest is your friend (whether you’re a member or not – though if you like this kind of thing, why on earth aren’t you on Pinterest?). Go to Pinterest.com and type ‘make advent calendar‘ in the search box. Click on one you like and go down the rabbit hole for instructions and ideas.
Or here’s one collection of 25 different creative calendar variations if you want to bypass Pinterest.
Some craft shops have make-your-own kits that you can fill with whatever you like. If you’re making your own, you could choose to put all sorts of family activity notes in (as well as Christmas story things – maybe even double up, with some days having a piece of the Christmas story and also an activity). Pick whatever mix of craft, baking, writing, watching, reading and service suits your household. You could include things like:
- Go to a carol service
- Decorate the Christmas tree
- Add the next piece to the Nativity scene (see below for more ideas on this)
- Wrap presents
- Make Christmas cards
- Do some Christmas baking
- Service activities (see the next heading)
Have any of you made your own Advent calendar of any kind? Got some pics you can put in the comments? I’d love to see!
Change the world!
Make a list as a household of some great, fun things you could do together to make the world a better place. (Or just put some of them in your Advent calendar if you’re making your own.)
Some ideas to get you thinking:
- Deliver groceries to a food bank
- Wrap presents together for grandparents
- Make Christmas cards for school friends/neighbours/shopkeepers
- Bake Christmas treats and wrap or deliver them
- Go carolling and sing to people who might appreciate a little shot of variety and the energy of kids: people in a hospital or rest home, maybe even a prison
- Invite someone from outside your family to Christmas dinner, or another special occasion
- Volunteer at a food bank, or somewhere serving a free Christmas meal
- Make up parcels of personal hygiene products and/or underwear for prisoners
See my post on letting kids know they have the power to change the world for more ideas. And if you have more to add, please leave a comment below.
Make a Jesse Tree
A Jesse Tree works on a similar principle to Advent calendars.
You make or draw a tree – anything from an elaborate fabric creation to a piece of paper on a wall – and once a day during Advent, you discover the next symbol and put it on the tree.
Stacey’s Jesse Tree with symbols attached.
The main difference is that usually a Jesse Tree counts down to Christmas by telling the stories of Jesus’ famous ancestors from the Old Testament.
For all you need to know about Jesse Trees, see Stacey’s wonderful post about how her family does it, with lots of links to other resources.
Read through a Jesse Tree Book
If you’re more a story kind of person than a make-and-do person, a great easy option is reading one story every day from a Jesse Tree book. The one I know best and recommend is by Geraldine McCaughrean.
This is a collection of stories of Jesus’ ancestors, one for each day of Advent. All the work done for you!
Light Advent Candles
This was by far the biggest part of our Advent last year, and was the jumping-off point of the Lent for Kids rituals we invented to follow on.
Most kids love candles, right?
It’s traditional in many churches to light five candles, usually arranged in a wreath, one for each Sunday of Advent, and one for Christmas Day.
There are lots of different patterns of candles to choose from, with different names, colours and themes for the candles.
So we did our own version at home, based on the pattern of candles we did at the church I was pastor at before my son was born: green for hope, blue for peace, yellow for joy, red for love, and a central white candle for Christ, to be lit on Christmas Day.
Whatever colour your candles are, you light them each day (at dinner time worked best for us), accumulating as you go. So for the first week, you light the green candle each night, and then in the second week, the green and the blue, and so on. You add the new candle each Sunday.
This is one of my very top recommendations for Advent with kids. The structure of lighting the candles one by one last year, when my son was just two, gave us the opportunity for repeated conversations that ended up creating our own theology-for-toddlers.
Each night at dinner we lit coloured candles, and he could proudly tell any visitors what each one was for:
‘What does the green candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus [is] our HOPE!’
‘And what does hope mean?’
‘Things [will] get better!’
Of course he only had a glimmer of understanding about what this all meant, but can you imagine how that will grow if we do the same thing every year of his childhood? This is the kind of spiritual foundation I really want to build for him. So the candles are definitely coming out again this year.
The full script that emerged over the month of Advent in our house was, if I remember rightly, something like this:
What does the green candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus is our HOPE!’
‘And what does hope mean?’ (explain this in whatever terms suit the kids in your life, then summarise on following nights once you’ve all settled on an explanation)
‘Things will get better!’ (the summary we ended up with.)What does the blue candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus is our PEACE!’
‘And what does peace mean?’
‘Jesus helps us get along with everyone.’‘What does the yellow candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus is our JOY!’
‘And what does joy mean?’
‘Jesus helps us be happy, even when things are hard.’‘What does the red candle remind us of?’
‘Jesus is our LOVE!’
‘And what does that mean?’
‘God loves us enough to give us Jesus.’
We use a candelabra because I’m too lazy for a wreath, but you can do a version that is as simple or elaborate as you like, of course.
Check craft shops for wreath-making supplies and craft or gift shops for a range of coloured candles. Go for big candles, remembering that the first one you light will be lit 20 or 30 times!
Bake up an Advent storm
The lead-up to Christmas is full of baking and cooking opportunities, and most kids love to pop on an apron and help in the kitchen.
You could make treats of any sort for gifts (suggest your favourites in the comments, eh?), or do some kind of special seasonal baking for giving or eating.
Some ideas (thanks entirely to Pinterest) – the links are more for pictures and ideas than recipes:
- Simple gingerbread houses (for older kids to do themselves, even!)
- Advent calendar cookies
- Stained glass cookies
- Away in a Manger cookies
- Edible Nativity scene
- Cloves in oranges to make the house smell delicious
- Letter cookies to spell relevant words
- Pizza in Christmas shapes
- Special bread for St Lucia’s day, anyone?
Assemble a collection of Christmas books to read
There are lots of great Christmas story books around, from ones telling the straight Nativity story to others drawing on themes of Christmas, or telling the story from an alternative perspective (a cat in the stable or the donkey carrying Mary).
You could make a special Advent reading corner where all your Christmassy books live. Or if you have enough books – get in early to the library and you might be in luck – you could even count down with one each bedtime, especially if you alternate with a children’s Bible story collection.
If you need some ideas, check out my post on my Top 10 Christmas Picture Books (that feature Jesus).
Assemble a Nativity Scene or Crèche
One of my very favourite things to do in Advent is to put out the Nativity scene. We have a set of wooden figures from Trade Aid (who usually have a great collection, and purchasing from here or somewhere similar means your money supports fairtrade business projects in developing communities – a very Christmassy thing to do).
Our figures are pictured in the graphics for this series (I had a lot of fun getting them out early to photograph).
There are few different ways you could use the figures throughout Advent.
You could either set them all up as a family activity one day, or you could heighten the anticipation by doing it gradually, adding a new piece every few days, or a new set (the shepherds and sheep; the wise men) each Sunday, with Baby Jesus not arriving until Christmas Day itself.
Another cool variation is to have all the pieces out, but travelling through the house throughout Advent. Mary and Joseph might travel from Nazareth (the kitchen?) to Bethlehem (the mantelpiece or coffee table?) over the course of the month, and the shepherds might start in their fields (do you have some pot-plants inside, maybe, or some green Lego to make some grass for the sheep?) before being visiting by angels and sent to the stable.
The wise men probably visited last – maybe even a year or two after Jesus was born, given the reaction of King Herod – so they might need to start all the way by the front door, slowly crossing the desert to see Jesus and his family… Maybe they don’t arrive until 6 January, the traditional date of Epiphany, marking their visit.
Figure out what will work best for your household, but there’s lots of fun to be had, so I strongly recommend making a big deal out of a Nativity set.
Do some Advent craft
I’m not yet at the craft-with-kids stage of family life, really, but I have consulted the trusty Pinterest and can suggest these ideas if you or kids you know would be keen:
- Make some Jesse Tree ornaments (see Stacey’s post on Jesse Trees, too)
- Make an Advent wreath (several different ideas for different ages) and then optionally put some candles in it (see above).
- Make pretend Advent candles if the real deal is too risky for your household!
- Explore traditional St Nicholas stories with craft activities.
- Make simple Christmas tree ornaments.
- Make Advent window decorations.
- Make paper-plate Christmas angels (you could add them to your dynamic Nativity scene activities – see above)
- Make this gorgeous Christmas ‘tree’ from driftwood or sticks. (The blog post in the link is in German, but there are lots of photos make the process clear!)
- And of course, if you’re early enough, make your own Advent calendar – 25 ideas collected here (phew!).
Sing!
Depending on your hemisphere (and other factors), Christmas carols may be most appropriate in Advent (if you’re in the Southern and heading away on holiday at Christmas) or after Christmas (more common in the North, where the holiday period is shorter).
But wherever you are, there will probably be a carol service you could attend – try ringing a big Anglican church if you’re not sure where to find one – and maybe even a Carols by Candlelight gathering outdoors (is this mostly a summery Southern Hemisphere tradition?).
Or sing at home, with the help of a piano, a stereo, YouTube or just your voices.
Remember that singing – especially with other people – has been shown to improve mood and be generally great for your health!
Share your singing with others: go carolling with kids around the neighbourhood, or in a hospital or rest home.
How’s that to get you started? If you’re after even more ideas, I have an expanded list at my blog, Sacraparental.com.
There’s so much room for more, though, and I would really appreciate you leaving a comment with tips and ideas from your experience. What stuff do you do at home to celebrate Advent with kids?
